energy management for lawyers

In my recent post on fueling lawyer happiness, I discussed the XE Factor - a teaching model of human energy exchange I devised to help lawyers and other service professionals I work with better understand how a particular person, issue, interaction or job impacts them on an energetic level. I believe that much of the work-related conflict, stress and discontent we experience stems from our inability to gauge, protect and renew our personal energy stores.

As he’s done before, blogger and passion catalyst Curt Rosengren again highlights the importance of understanding this dynamic of human energy depletion, conservation and generation. In a post on Energy catalysts he observes: “People who feel vibrant and alive because they're doing what they're meant to be doing are inherently energizing to be around.” Rosengren dubs these people energy catalysts. On the flipside are the energy sappers [also known as energy vampires]. These “people who are dissatisfied with where their lives are taking them can be a drain, sucking the energy out of their surroundings” and the folks they interact with.

Most of us go through the day without considering our own energy state. We know that we’re feeling put off, tired, overwhelmed and disheartened, but we don’t attribute those feelings to impaired energy. In a new Fast Company article called Is Your Boss Killing You? we learn more about the great havoc wreaked by workplace energy sappers. The piece leads off by citing study findings suggesting that “caustic, abrasive, and overbearing bosses just might be taking years off their employees' lives.” It goes on to offer expert views on ways people can avoid or re-route this energetic drain, such as “looking at pictures of their families, visualizing a beautiful vacation spot, or even trying to imagine a problematic situation as comical rather than stressful.”

Additional insight into personal energy management comes from an article in the July 2006 Law Practice Today titled Meet the Most Powerful Stress Manager: Your Heart. In it, Kim Allen and Bruce Cryer of HeartMath LLC outline the heart’s role in creating and maintaining a positive energy flow in the human mind and body.

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Jeff - July 18, 2006 10:55 AM

Terrific post!!!

Victoria Pynchon - July 18, 2006 06:18 PM

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Pamela Slim - August 1, 2006 12:43 PM

Hi Arnie!

It was great to hear about your upcoming trip in your ezine. I was drawn to this post about tuning into your energy levels, as I see it being a real key to work/life satisfaction.

I am so thankful that you are doing what you are doing for the legal community... having known many lawyers, the field is notorious for churn and burn. The function you provide is important, and I am happy that you are encouraging others to find their "sweet spot" so that they provide a needed service while living a fulfilling and energy-filled life.

Keep up the good work and safe travels!

All the best,
-Pam