of life and ethical wills
Although I’ve drafted my fair share of simple wills for clients, I never thought of asking them if they wanted to convey anything to their loved ones beyond material possessions. This article discusses the “modern trend” of ethical wills – writings or other recordings in which “people pass down the experiences and values that have infused their lives with meaning.” These wills are about the personal stories, love, wisdom and feelings we want to leave as our legacy to future generations. According to the article, the following are some of the key questions to consider in drafting such a will:
· What do you want your loved ones to know about your family history?
· What is your vision for your heirs' use of their inheritance?
· Have you made mistakes for which you want to ask forgiveness? Or is there forgiveness you want to offer?
· Why have you made certain decisions about your estate, such as donating a portion of it to charity?
· How does your use of money reflect your most important values?
· What are some values and life lessons you'd like to share regarding education, the workplace, marriage, and parenting?
· What have your friendships meant to you over the years?
