the legal sanity mentor: kathleen brady

Due to the summer posting hiatus, it’s been a little while since the last installment in my series of posts on redesigning legal services around the client experience.  

I’ve always been a proponent of the idea that it’s really hard for unhappy lawyers to provide great client service. To put it another way: The lawyer experience and client experience are two sides of the same coin. You can get a good sense of what I’m driving at by sampling some of my archived posts on the subject:

lawyer experience management 

creating a firm culture that enhances the lawyer experience 

lawyers as user-innovators

can law firms change to meet user demand?

With the recession-fueled law firm shake-ups, the lawyer experience has become a front burner issue for many displaced practitioners as they contemplate their next professional steps.

Kathleen Brady is an expert in career planning for lawyers. I first met Kathy when I was a student and she was Assistant Dean of Career Services at Fordham University School of Law. I asked her to dialogue with me about her work with lawyers going through career transition.

AH You must be busy.

KB Yes, I’m incredibility busy doing outplacement work for law firms.

AH Is it frustrating? How do you deal with fact that there are more lawyers than jobs?

KB We’re not head hunters, so our success isn’t measured by the number of jobs we help people get. Rather, we help lawyers move through the transition process.

AH I like that, helping people through a process. What emotions do you come across?

KB Emotions across the board – from truly relieved because they hated what they were doing to shocked, devastated and appalled because they did everything they were supposed to do and still find themselves out of work.

AH How do you help people deal with the emotions?

KB It’s really important to let them feel what they’re feeling and work through that. If they don’t, the emotions come out at the worst times, like, during job interviews.

AH What does it mean to let them feel what they’re feeling?

KB  It means encouraging them to express their feelings – to vent, cry, etc. We let them know it's OK to be emotional. But, the key is to not let them get stuck in their emotions. To prevent this immobility, we help people focus on effective steps they can take to move forward in their career. That said, when people present additional issues – such as depression, eating disorders or substance abuse - it’s important to recognize the limitations of your counseling abilities. A few psych courses in college or grad school doesn’t qualify me, or most other career counselors, to address those issues. You have to know enough to know when you need to make a referral.

AH  What’s the biggest challenge to getting lawyers-in-transition to experience and embrace this forward momentum?

KB The biggest challenge is convincing them that the job loss, especially a layoff, isn’t personal. It’s challenging because there’s nothing more personal than losing your job. This is where support groups and other resources (bar associations, alumni groups and virtual communities) are vital. Being able to see the common ground, how the recession is hitting everyone, makes it less of a personal slight.

AH Is there a silver lining here when it comes to the lawyer experience?

KB Yes there’s a huge one; particularly for new lawyers. Before the most recent recession, many lawyers moved into their careers without thinking about long-term goals. After a few years, they’d look up and realize they were miserable. Then, they would go through a process of figuring out what they wanted from their career. This process of taking a hard look at your career is happening en masse now and it’s a good thing. Lawyers have a chance to be more deliberate in how they shape their career in the law or on a more non-traditional path.

AH Is there one skill that’s vital to successfully navigating this path to a positive lawyer experience?

KB I’d say networking and business relationship skills are vital. For example, many lawyers spend all their time searching for a job on the internet. They send out 500 resumes to little or no avail. The best way to find a job is to use all your resources. If you see something online, find someone you know at the firm and get your resume to them. If you don’t know anyone there, use your network to make a connection. Connecting with people can be hard work, but it’s a great skill to hone because it’s the same skill set that helps you build relationships for business development and career advancement.

AH Any final words of advice?

KB Young lawyers need to reset their expectations. Some still are convinced that they need to work at the biggest and most prestigious firms. But, they really need to consider where they can acquire the skills they need to get where they want to be in the long term  They need to seriously consider: “Does this job take me closer to my dreams or take me away from them?”

Thank you, Kathleen, for helping us better understand how we can optimize the lawyer experience, even in these difficult times.

 

life and business lessons on resilience from a young point guard

My seven-year-old son started playing in our town’s youth basketball league this year. I’m one of his coaches. Now, as any truthful observer of this kind of squad will admit, playing is a loose term. As the kids do their best to pass (we have a three-pass minimum), shoot and defend, there are lots of arms flailing and bodies colliding. Inevitably, someone gets hurt.

The other day, that someone was my son. Playing in the point guard spot, he took a hard hit to the mouth. I could tell it really hurt. He ran over to me, tears streaming. But, instead of breaking down, he grabbed the ball and wanted to continue playing. No, this is not a “that’s my macho kid” brag. He’s actually a very sensitive soul and routinely emotes with the best of them. But, when I later asked him how he held it together, he said: “I was playing the game and my team needed me. I had to keep on going even though it hurt.”

Since then, I’ve thought a lot about his attitude. Kids can be resilient, for sure. One moment they’re down on the ground crying their eyes out and the next they’re happily jumping in the mud. I don’t think we lose that resilience on the way to adulthood. We just lose sight of it.

In his recent address to Congress, Presidents Obama recognized our own and the country’s resilience. I found his words inspiring and challenging. One look at the law firm layoff list and (even the most upbeat of) reports on the U.S. economy, makes it very clear that lawyers are facing some serious and seriously disconcerting work and life challenges.

New York Times columnist Tara Parker-Pope shares that the economy is making people sicker. According to Reuters, Americans are increasingly insecure about retirement. With all this to cope with, how do we claim – or reclaim – our resilience?

If you’ve lost your job or are just starting out as a lawyer in this difficult market, career counselor Steve Langerud offers some sage job search pointers. First, he advises us to be flexible and realistic about our skills and qualifications. He also says that it’s a time to be “bold and valiant” in the search process and to ask people to help us identify professional opportunities. Echoing this last point is a great piece from The Glass Hammer on building a personal board of directors. You might also find some wisdom in a recent Fast Company article by Po Bronson titled What Should I do with My Life, Now?